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About Surrender #4

In about Surrender #3, we changed our thinking and images regarding setting boundaries – liberated from conditioning, telling us to be inferior. So what is still missing? The changes within our bodies and feelings… Let’s start with the Body – with our movement, breathing and posture. These three aspects mirror whether we feel safe within ourselves or […]

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About Surrender #3

The question is: How can we fix our boundaries? So far, we have learned to read our yearning for surrender in a new way: as a question of boundaries. Often it is a physical fear for our boundaries which prevents us from opening up sexually, or trusting another human being. If we can’t surrender, we […]

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About Surrender #2

In the first article About Surrender#1, we explored that surrendering doesn’t help indulgence, but setting boundaries does. Modern Studies, exploring the “design” of our nervous system verbalize the formula of the sequence of natural surrender as following: Step: Safety (protection of my boundaries) Step: Aapproach (sizzles… and contact…) Step: Touch/ Contact (incl. indulging sex) Step: Bond […]

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About Surrender #1

About Surrender… It could all be so simple. As we take off our clothes, we also strip off our thoughts about work and our daily routine; we leave it all behind as we throw ourselves onto the bed. We kiss, we can sense each other, feel each other and…we stop thinking. We let go of […]