»There is no way to the body. The body is the way.«


Ilan Stephani is a Berlin based bestselling author, speaker and researcher on how to shift collective paradigms and un-learn cultural conditioning to gain back our natural orgasmic aliveness.

She walks the talk with endless curiosity, humor and ongoing research in the fields of Embodiment | Sexuality | Trauma | Health | Mysticism.

Ilan gained nation-wide attention with her bestselling book »Skin and Games – What Sexwork Taught Me About Love«. Ilan offers online courses, in-person retreats and year intensives in both German and English. Ilan shares her radical perspectives and practical insights through her popular global youtube channel and her podcast »YoniOnAir«.


  • Women’s Self Defense with elements of »Model Mugging« (#TigerWork)
  • Consultant for Bioelectric Health (Bioelektrische Gesundheit®)
  • PantaReiApproach Practitioner, Vered Manasse and Claudia Glowik


  • Bestselling author of the book »Lieb und Teuer – Was ich im Puff über das Leben gelernt habe« (English title: »Skin and Games – What Sexwork Taught Me About Love«) – radically analyzing Ilan’s experience of prostitution as the mirror of society – published in Germany on October 12, 2017 at Ecowin Verlag.
  • Author of the book »Finde deine sexuelle Kraft – die Elemente der Ekstase« – published March 2022 at Unum-Verlag (GU) in German.
  • Ongoing research in elements of tantra and taoism, trauma healing, somatic mysticism, touch, postural work, yoga, movement, kundalini, spirituality, bio-electricity, human potential and the nervous system