Hi, I am ILAN STEPHANI.
Bestselling Author and Somatic Researcher in the Fields of
Embodiment | Sexuality | Trauma | Health | Mysticism.
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Voices
»This #ShakingEvent was one of the most beautiful and moving experiences I’ve had in a long time. Working with our own pain and the pain of the world at the same time was powerful and deeply inspiring — like “kissing the planet with the gift of vibration.«
MICHAEL F.
ALL UPCOMING EVENTS IN ENGLISH
Bestseller
#ShakingUpThePowerOfShaking
The Shaking Collection
Wanna feel more alive in your everyday business? Wanna use stress and triggers for MORE energy (instead of being depleted)? You’re longing for practical tools to create more inner freedom and happiness – no matter what?
The Shaking Collection is a series of powerful concrete practices to fuel your aliveness. Let’s go!
Book
Skin And Games
What Sexwork Taught Me About Love
Is prostitution good or bad? I don’t know. But it is one of the best things this culture has brought forth: It is a mirror, that tells the truth. And I love it for that.
Based on my personal experience of two years of prostitution, I wrote »Skin And Games«, a book in which I analyze our society’s double standards and the sexual distress suffered by both women and men, and show possible ways of healing together.
This German Bestseller is now available in English as Kindle eBook.
Online Challenge
#HardcoreEmbodiment
Challenging P0rn – Exclusive Challenge for Men
#HardcoreEmbodiment is a powerful is a unique and powerful series of practices – unfolding a fundamentally new approach to p0rn and to your own sexuality.
A 5 module challenge to bring back sensitivity and real intensity to set you free on all levels. Are you in?
SOMATIC ONLINE ADVENTURES
Shaking Collection
#ShakingUpThePowerOfShaking
A series of powerful shaking practices to fuel your aliveness
#OrgasmOfPeace
Somatic Journey for Women
We don’t need to learn ecstasy, but how to dissolve what keeps us from it.
#KalisKiss ONLINE POOL
Somatic Practices & Resources
A wild fountain of journeys and wisdom to explore and re-awaken your aliveness
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