Bestselling Author and Somatic Researcher in the Fields of
Embodiment | Sexuality | Trauma | Health | Mysticism.

Welcome To A Wildly Alive Community
For #SomaticEcstatics!

#KalisKiss Online Salon is an exclusive member area for those who are ready to dive deeper into their somatic research, embodiment and aliveness while being guided and inspired by Ilan and supported by each other.


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Upcoming #KalisKiss Events


  • 2 Monthly Live Calls with Ilan
  • Extensive Somatic Research Content Archive
  • Exclusive Women-Only and Men-Only Salons
  • Exclusive Online Courses & Teachings
  • InterActive Somatic Aliveness Practices: #ShakingEvents, #ShadowTemple, #PowerOfAction
  • Daring Support From Like Minded Beings
  • Exclusive Special Events from Ilan & Guests
  • Ilan’s German Bestseller »Skin And Games« (English eBook)
  • Exclusive Discount Codes for Ilan’s Events & Courses
  • Growing Resource Library
Book Release

Skin And Games

What Sexwork Taught Me About Love

Is prostitution good or bad? I don’t know. But it is one of the best things this culture has brought forth: It is a mirror, that tells the truth. And I love it for that.

Based on my personal experience of two years of prostitution, I wrote »Skin And Games«, a book in which I analyze our society’s double standards and the sexual distress suffered by both women and men, and show possible ways of healing together.

This German Bestseller is now available in English as Kindle eBook.


An Embodiment Call For Inner Freedom – No Matter What!

#LoveAndRage is a super condensed sequence of online calls, all designed to reclaim your inner freedom while still being deeply connected to others. It empowers your instincts and reawakens the cosmic power of LOVE as a physical experience of RAGE and DEPTH. You’re in? Let’s go! 

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Somatic Journey for Women

We don’t need to learn ecstasy, but how to dissolve what keeps us from it.

#SexAndEssence Level 1

Somatic Journey for Men

An intense journey from cultural norms back to your own sexual essence.


Somatic Journey for Partners

What actually makes our sex life ‘great’ and fills us with energy, wonder and love?


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