Hi, I am ILAN STEPHANI.
Bestselling Author and Somatic Researcher in the Fields of
Embodiment | Sexuality | Trauma | Health | Mysticism.
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Skin And Games
What Sexwork Taught Me About Love
Is prostitution good or bad? I don’t know. But it is one of the best things this culture has brought forth: It is a mirror, that tells the truth. And I love it for that.
Based on my personal experience of two years of prostitution, I wrote »Skin And Games«, a book in which I analyze our society’s double standards and the sexual distress suffered by both women and men, and show possible ways of healing together.
This German Bestseller is now available in English as Kindle eBook.
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